末段看到些小郁闷哪。
佛说:出世的心,做入世的事。离开是为了回来。
下面这段是我很喜欢的,送给锦衣兄,出自心理学家弗兰克尔的《探索生命的意义》,找了好久没有找到中文的对应翻译。 大意是说,成功和快乐,都不是刻意追求而可得的,而必然是你专注于你所热爱的事或人之后的附属衍生品。
Don’t aim at success–the more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side-e*ect of one’s personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you h*e to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long run–in the long run, I say–success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think of it.